Thank you Catherin and Robert,
Much of what comes up while reading Roberts response is reactive, based on my early life experience of growing up in Pennsylvania, son of two WW2 passivist, in a family of quiet responsibel WASPs doing good work, great grandson of Thomas L. Riggs, missionary and creator of Oahe Indian School with his wife who was son of Steven Return Riggs who translated the bible into Lakota and made with others the first dictionary, translator and mediator at many indian war negotiations which always ended in denial of true rights, sacred relationships to nature and amoung human kind. I believe I that I am no longer habituated in my reactiveness but this requires daily and topic wise discernment. I am aware of what remains in my body. I notice how the traumas of now reverberate from the horror and denial of the past. And there is much more.
I grew up on rationalism, studied Physics,intellectual history, Industrial Design and have traveled an unlikely and in terms of reputional titles and insignificant path except perhaps as a woodworker, a reliable project co-creator, a dialogue host and a father-husband. Hospizing modernity rings for me across generations, scales, life-form affirmations and authentic spiritual ways of practice. I have no problem with what is presented. But I too find the “how do I work in a good way each day” the challenge. Assailing, protesting, retreating, arguing for or against, hating, fighting and spritual escapes and retreats all feel like practices of ignoring, further displacement and demoralising defeatism. And so I show up each day, hospizing what is dying in me, noticing how the worlds systems show up in my nervouse system and me in Gaia nervous systems that so need our tending and trusted companioning. I hear and feel you Robert and I thank you that you do your work from what you write in 2R with respect and clarity in service of what you care for.
Catherin, in the article you wrote:
«Clearing Space
Crucially, hospicing modernity involves tending to its decline — confronting its harms, learning, and disinvesting from it — without any guarantees or roadmap for what comes next, or even the promise of a better future. While we require openness towards alternative visions of values like progress, justice, care, and relationship, we aren’t looking to replace one system with another. Rather, space must be cleared for new narratives to emerge — which might not even be imaginable from a modern point of view. » quote
There is more below that is also important that frames.
As I look at my son and daughter trying to find a way to live practically in their local economy, with the skills they have attended through acedemic and lived experience, as they become more aware of LIFE living through them, it is hard to watch how precarious their way forward is.
My daughter was discovered directly out of high school as good and careful person and hired part time as assistant at the Bern teachers college. My son has taken the experiemental path and finishes his masters degree in Transversal Design from FHNW Switzerland. They write about themes we care for here. They are also fully in the mostly state sponsored acedemic world which allows them to learn longer and achieve re-cognition and status in various peer and research organisations. This authentic work for them allows them to inform the dominate system from inside while staying true to their becoming. But it isn’t easy, in the mainstream and in my wifes imagination they are not doing valuable work because she can’t imagine what it’s good for yet and how it will pay the bills. This modernist framework of judging youth for not being part of the social-economic system and earning their own “livelihood” is not understandable to the daughter of parents that lived through the depression and WW2 and gave service to control and protect families in the cultures of those years. We have the benifit and are enabled by having the privilege of a multi-perspectival viewing, mapping and sensing of what is becoming even as every part of systems at different scales reaches fatigue, fractures and failure. She can not yet, becasue of her patterns see and stay present with the rapid changes that we are experiencing. Many people, probably most people in communities will not understand what the stress and failures are symptoms of. It doesn’t matter to them. What can help is that they notice that they are supported by gentle networks of caring and alignment that run deeper and touch their souls sensing.
Perhaps that does not make rational sense but I have come to see that consciousness is presence and in life itself. And this allows us to let go, to be stretched into beholding all that is too much but also to be at the same time embraced by all that holds and creates coherence. This is my understanding at the moment. We are streteched to behold - we are suspended but embodied - we are embracing and giving tenderness even as what we care for is too much. So be it.